Dating Coaching

Feeling Discouraged About Your Dating Prospects?

The apps. The chase. The ghosting. Dating can be so hard, even though you have put yourself out there and are ready for a long-term commitment. What’s worse is that you see your friends happily partnering up one by one, making you wonder why finding love is so easy for them but not for you.

I know—you’re ready to have true, long-lasting love in your life. But why is finding the right relationship so challenging? No matter how you go about meeting new people, nothing you’ve tried has brought you any closer to finding The One.

What Are Your Dating Setbacks?

Maybe your search has been generally limited to dating apps. Though you’ve managed to go on some first dates, you haven’t been able to attract the kind of partner you want. Maybe the people you are really interested in don’t seem interested in you. It might be hard for you to get past the chatting/texting phase or land the second date. Despite being tired of swiping left and the chore of online dating, you may not know how or where to meet potential partners in person.

Even if you’ve managed to go on multiple dates, the fit is not quite right. The dates are boring or don’t lead anywhere. Maybe you’re getting ghosted or broken up with by the people who do interest you, leaving you without a full understanding of where things went wrong. The relationships you enter into don’t seem to last, and you are at a loss of what to do. You just want to be in a great relationship.

As a dating and relationship coach, I will provide you with the tools and insights you’ve been looking for. Appointments will be focused and strategic. We will discuss all of your dating concerns. From there, you will receive an individualized plan for dating better and creating a healthy, fulfilling relationship.

The Modern World Of Dating Is Often Difficult To Navigate

These days, online dating is the norm for singles. But because online dating offers its users an endless menu of attractive, available people, it’s hard to focus on just one person. The idea that there is always something else out there sabotages the goal. And people can go on exchanging messages for weeks on end without taking that next step to meet for a first date.

Many of us were not offered clear guidance about how to make lasting, impactful in-person connections. Approaching strangers to flirt often feels awkward and uncomfortable. And gender norms complicate “the rules” of pursuit, with men and women alike feeling confused about what are expected and acceptable behaviors.

Additionally, the culture of ghosting makes the dating game even more complicated. Instead of being given honest, direct feedback about incompatibilities, many people are left in the dust without explanation. Without constructive guidance that could help attract a good match the next time around, people often feel like they are back to square one after every interaction. Sometimes they have a hard time trusting themselves because dating hasn’t worked out.

Coaching is a meaningful opportunity for those who feel frustrated, unsure, and insecure about their dating prospects. In coaching appointments, we will create a clear picture of what your ideal relationship looks like and incorporate new skills and strategies to make dating more successful. With new tools, dating can feel more manageable, hopeful, and even exciting.

Coaching Offers You The Necessary Tools To Get What You Want Out Of Dating

Coaching appointments orient around your goals for dating and relationships. As I learn more about your dating history and what you want to achieve through the coaching process, I can create a personalized plan with step-by-step instructions to target your specific objectives. Whether you need help revamping your profile to attract compatible matches, are looking for guidance about what is and isn’t a red flag, or want to dig deeper into the dating missteps keeping you stuck, I coach men and women throughout New York City with great results.

What To Expect

My goal as a dating and relationship coach is to help my clients take each step with confidence. I will work with you to explore past experiences, present obstacles, and future goals so that we can create a more concrete understanding of your dating approach and how it can be adjusted for success.

This process may involve editing your profile and DMs in real time so that you get attention from the people you want to date. We will also discuss what to do on a date so that you make a positive, lasting impression. Maybe we’ll go over past dates to identify the strengths and weaknesses of your approach. No matter what barriers you face on your search for love, I will make sure you have new tools and skills in place to meet the right person and start your next relationship on the right foot.

Coaching is meant to be a fun, comfortable, and eye-opening process. What seemed so difficult and unattainable before will suddenly be achievable. I hope to work myself out of a job as your dating coach, meaning you will date successfully, find “The One,” and not need my help anymore. It is so rewarding to receive engagement announcements and wedding photos alongside words of thanks from past clients. They were able to find lasting love through this process, and I know you will too.

Still Unsure If Coaching Is Right For You?

How long will coaching take to make a difference in my dating life?

During our very first appointment together, I will offer you actionable tasks and feedback on your dating profile (if applicable). A different online profile can attract a completely different type of person—and we can make these changes on day one.

Every appointment we have will be an opportunity to try new things and create more momentum. This process is set up to give you information and tools upfront, then guide you through behaviors, messaging, and relational patterns, allowing you to adjust as you go for better outcomes.

How are coaching appointments scheduled?

Coaching sessions can be scheduled as single appointments or packages of four appointments. Scheduling is flexible, and we will work around your time constraints. Appointments can be scheduled as frequently or infrequently as you’d like, with same-week appointments available.

I’m worried that I will be judged for needing a dating coach.

Coaching is an entirely private and confidential process. Everything we discuss will be kept between you and me. No one ever has to know you are working with a dating coach. And since we meet over Zoom, no one will ever see you in the waiting room.

Like my other clients, you’re probably used to succeeding in many other areas of life, making the lack of dating prospects feel all the more frustrating. But how could you possibly know how to do this on your own?

A New Way Of Dating Is Possible

As an experienced coach and therapist, I offer coaching to men and women who feel frustrated, discouraged, or hopeless about dating. There is a better way! Schedule a free phone consultation.

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